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Character

Don’t overlook basic character flaws. Afterall, there are almost 10 billion people world-wide to choose from.

Think about it. For example, why do many 19 year old women find 39 year old men interesting, even attractive? What about the reverse? When you are let’s say 50 years old, what will a 20 year age difference mean?

Friends are lukewarm

Your friends are not negative, it’s not that they don’t like her, but they aren’t all that excited either. Heed this warning.

Feel bad

You can’t put your finger on it. You just generally feel down about the relationship.

One of a million

Is she one of a million or one in a million. You think she’s smart, attractive, fun … OK, you just described millions of women all over the world. Dilemma: Do you wait for that special one, or settle?

Do you like her?

What does love really mean? That’s why this site exists. But if you don’t really like her, can she be the one? Be honest.

Soothing

Language gets in the way, but one indicator that you have found the right one is that you find her “soothing” or “comforting” to be around as opposed to “abrasive” for example.

Longing

Pretty simple. Even for a day, you miss her.