Should I stay or should I go?

Starting or committing to a romantic relationship, especially marriage, and then staying or leaving might be the single most important decision you ever make.

How do you know what you don’t know?

How will you know what to do though?
If you haven’t experienced the feelings good or bad before, how will you know?

Learn from mistakes that others have made.

You could learn through trial and error using a number of dating sites, matchmaking services, and failed relationships. Or you can learn from the reading and research we conduct here at How Will You Know. Exhaustive review of culture and research materials, focus groups, and interviews with therapists and relationship counselors.

Language gets in the way. The feelings are often hard to describe or explain, but there are indicators that you might have found the right one … or not.

Is he or she the one?

HowWillYouKnow.com is loaded with dozens of symptoms and indicators that you might find helpful, that you can identify with, guide you in your decision. Decades of reading and research. Stories from dozens of real people.

You are very likely not in control. The symptoms and indicators and feelings just are … or not. They are not value judgments. The other person may not be the right one. That doesn’t make them a bad person, just the wrong life-long partner.